​​Welcome  to    Joy By Surprise

Love is the world's most popular subject. Go into any library and you will be amazed at the number of books on love. Love stories, love songs, love poems, love letters etc. fill the shelves. Switch on the radio or TV and you will be met with an ever increasing menu of dramas featuring love. Young people dream about 'falling in love.' Yes, love and lovers are always in the news. No one will doubt, but that love is a popular subject. But, strange as it may seem, 'love' is also the most misunderstood word in the world. What is love? Does anybody know what love is? I'm sure millions do. But can you define the word love? It's easier to say what 'love is not' or what 'love does not do' than to say 'what love is.' Yes, what is love? The dictionary defines the word 'love' as:

1. A warm liking or affection for a person, affectionate devotion.
2. Sexual affection or passion.
3. YaHuWaH 's benevolence towards mankind.
4. Strong liking for a thing. i.e. the love of music.
5. No score. (in games)

Notice the words: liking, affection, devotion, passion and benevolence.

This morning we will first consider 'love' in the normally accepted sense of the term: liking, affection, devotion, passion and end by concentrating on the definition, ' YaHuWaH 's benevolence towards mankind.' Then we will see if we can duplicate part of YaHuWaH 's love in our lives towards Him and others.

This is one of the best forms of human love. It begins at birth and lasts as long as mother lives. Your mother is the first person to love you and, as long as she is alive, the last person on earth to forsake you. Mother love is probably the purest and most unselfish type of human love there is. Mothers love for what they can give, not for what they can get from their children. Mother love is pure affection and devotion. It's impossible to describe. Individuals learn to love others by receiving love from their mothers. When mother love is absent, and this does happen occasionally, a child may grow up feeling rejected and become itself emotionally stunted. Such a child may well become incapable of loving others, simply because it has never received love from its own mother or father.

This comes next, father, brothers, sisters, cousins, aunts, uncles and grandparents. We love all of these in a different way. No matter how we may quarrel with the family, we can never alter the fact that genetically we are related, and because nothing can change that fact, families generally cling together.

Our love for them is different from our love for our families. This love depends upon shared interests, conditions, experiences, dangers or religious beliefs. These things bring people together in friendship.

The love of a man for his wife, or a wife for her husband is something totally different. No happily married couple can properly explain marital love. It is indefinable. It manifests itself in a thousand different ways. That is why we have tens of thousands of love stories coming on to the market every year; each in its own way telling the wonders of love between a man and a woman. I know! I've been married to my wife since 1956 and, if I may say so, I love her more today than I did yesterday and much less than I will tomorrow!

Finally we come to YaHuWaH's love for mankind. No likes and dislikes, sexual affection or passion here; but 'divine benevolence.' The dictionary defines the word 'benevolence' as: wishing to do good to others, kindly, helpful and charitable. Most modern translations of the Bible have replaced the word charity with the word love. Both words come from the same root; but because the word love is so misunderstood these days, the phrase 'God is love' has lost its meaning.

Were you to tell a young unbelieving audience that God is love, many would think that you mean God is Sex or that Sex is God! How tragic is the result of such misunderstanding. Far better had we retained the word 'charity' meaning benevolence; and in God's case meaning 'divine benevolence.'

YaHuWaH Loves You

We must be taught about God's love. Taught what it is and what it is not. We must be taught that God loves the world; and, more importantly, that He loves each of us. He loves you and He loves me. No doubt you've heard that truth before, that 'God loves you.' Its been voiced so often that many people treat it as a meaningless cliché. But it is a fact, a great truth. 'GOD LOVES YOU.' Understanding of that fact could well be the most important discovery of your life, that God loves you! Not likes you, but loves you with benevolent affection.

We often hear Christians say that God loves the sinner; but hates the sin. It's a beautiful thought; but alas! it's not what the Bible teaches. Believe it or not in certain circumstances, YaHuWaH hates the blatant sinner!

The answer is because Esau was a 'profane person.' Esau treated sacred things with blasphemous irreverence and contempt. He despised the religion of his grandfather Abraham, his father Isaac and his brother Jacob. So YaHuWaH began to hate Esau. We are warned not to imitate Esau in his sins of unbelief and profanity.

But back to our question What is love? We now know that love is benevolent affection. But let me attempt a further description; one I have arrived at from the study of Scripture.

'Love is the sacred, motivating PRINCIPLE which governs the Almighty YaHuWaH 's behavior. It is not a matter of likes or dislikes towards friends or enemies. Love is the leading component in YaHuWaH 's character. Everything He does is guided by this principle. Though His love may manifest itself emotionally (i.e. in anger or joy) love is far more than the emotions it generates. Love is the holy motivating force at the heart of YaHuWaH !

To be sure, generosity, mercy, patience, kindness, tender-heartedness etc. are all outcomes of YaHuWaH 's benevolence - His love. But YaHuWaH 's love is the motivating force behind all these beautiful outcomes. That's why the Bible says that YaHuWaH is love! We catch a glimpse of YaHuWaH 's love, His character, His inner mind in the following passage.

Here we have a description of YaHuWaH Elohim of Abraham, Isaac and Jacob, the Elohim of Love!

• He is Merciful … This is a divine outcome of love.
• He is Gracious … This is a divine outcome of love.
• He is Abundant in Goodness and Truth … This is a divine outcome of love.
• He keeps mercy for thousands and forgives iniquity and transgression and sin … These are all divine outcomes and expressions of YaHuWaH 's love.
• But YaHuWaH will by no means clear the guilty! Here is another divine outcome of love; it is justice! This is perhaps the most difficult of all to understand.

Notice that these 'divine outcomes and expressions of love' are very different from the likes, dislikes, emotions and passions we humans mistakenly call 'love.'

There are many examples of true love in the Bible.

Mother love: Tell the story of the 2 harlots in 1 Kings 3

Father love: Tell the story of the Prodigal son. (Luke 15:)

Love of Friends: Tell of David and Jonathan (1Sam:19)

Love for One's Spouse

Satan has attacked the word 'love' because it is a Biblical term that describes YaHuWaH 's character.

So great is Satan's hatred for YaHuWaH that anything associated with the Almighty: His Word, His commandments, His Sabbaths, His people and even the language that describes Him is attacked, vilified and twisted. As believers we need to know what the Bible means when it says: 'God is love,' or 'love one another.' Failure to understand what the Bible is telling us will result in hang-ups of self-pity. We need to understand what YAHUSHUA means when He says:

Remember that love must not be confused with feelings, likes, dislikes or emotional demonstrations. Love is a divine, motivating principle which emanates from the mind of YaHuWaH ! Love is holy benevolence. Though love may manifest itself in mercy, kindness, honesty, generosity and patience etc.. Love is not soppy sentimentality! Love is how YaHuWaH behaves. Love recognizes sin for what it really is. Love abhors unbelief, profanity and blatant sin; and, like YaHuWaH, love is the opponent of the blatant sinner! Failure to understand these things will lead to all kinds of emotional problems.

If you want love to take root and grow in your life, then keep YaHuWaH 's commandments; begin to do what He says.

Obedience to these commands is only possible if we recognize love for what it really is:

The holy benevolence of YaHuWaH motivating us to be like Him.

7. Love Your Enemies

What does this mean? How is it possible? How does one love one's enemies? What are we supposed to do or not do? Does it mean we are to 'like' our enemies; be emotionally attached to them; be friendly with them? No it doesn't mean this at all. Now that we know that 'love' is not a matter of likes or dislikes, but rather a divine principle generating mercy, loving-kindness, goodness and truth, we can better understand the Savior's words when He said:

'Love Your Enemies'

Do you have any enemies? Perhaps not; but most of the leading characters in Scripture had enemies. The prophets, apostles, the Savior and even YaHuWaH Himself; they all had enemies. They didn't like their enemies. In fact they hated them. But they did love their enemies. They prayed for them, pleaded with them, admonished them, warned them of sin etc. But they didn't 'like' them! They weren't emotionally attached to them as with friends or family. In a similar way YaHuWaH loves the world; but He hates the blatant 'workers of iniquity.'

The last day church we all know is 'a commandment-keeping church.' This church will also be recognized by the fruit of the Holy Spirit: love for Truth and love for YaHuWaH being the most evident.

If you wish to measure your spiritual progress in the Garden of your Soul, then look there for the fruit of the Spirit: love, joy, peace, long-suffering, mercy , kindness etc. If they are missing, then you know very little - if anything - about true love. Always remember that true love is a product of YaHuWaH 's Holy Spirit. One cannot learn about true love from books. One cannot fall into true love; or make true love. It is not an earthly product. True love is made in heaven! Happy marriages are made in heaven.

True love is extinguished by unbelief, suspicion, profanity, selfishness, greed, pride, slander, violence, infidelity and INIQUITY etc. All these will stifle and kill true love. If you want true love to flourish in your life, in your marriage and your family then beware of these smothering weeds. They will choke true love to death if left to grow unchecked. The Master warns that in the last days just prior to His return.

That time has arrived. It is here. Millions are giving up their faith in God. True love, for YaHuWaH, His Holy Word, His Torah and His Church is also vanishing from the Earth. How is it with you? Have you lost your first love for YaHuWaH ? Beware that it isn't frozen out by sin!